Scott and I in Ireland.
Happy Father's Day to my dad too! Again I can say that I am so thankful my father has always been there for me. Girls that have good dads are always attached to them and try to marry someone who is like their father. My Dad and I have always been close and have always been able to communicate very well with eachother and most of the time without saying a word. We know each other's thoughts and know how to comfort each other when needed. I knew my Dad loved me but over the last year I have really been shown his love for me and my children. For some reason when Daddy says it's going to be okay you feel a sense of safety and you think everything is going to be alright. I saw the heartache in his eyes for the first time this past year when we lost Emma. It was the first time he couldn't fix something for me and he couldn't take the pain away. I didn't want him or Scott to leave my side during my grieving process. Dad showed me his true love when he stayed with me for several days and spent the night several nights and didn't leave me until I said I thought I would be okay. Even then he never failed to call and check on me and come by to visit in the days after. He couldn't tell me how to get through it or that he knew how I felt because this was one road he never had to travel, losing a child. However, I saw him grieve so much for his baby princess that he only got to talk to but never hold or kiss her. His prayers, encouragement and often his presence alone helped me feel at peace. I love my Dad so much and I am so thankful my kids have such a great christian example to follow as I did growing up. I love watching my Dad's eyes light up when Lane runs at full speed and jumps into his arms or Avery's smiles so big at him that it nearly brings a tear to his eye. I love you Dad!
This is not a good picture to most but this was right before I had the girls and Dad (Scott and Mom) never left my side. I was a bittersweet moment of neither of us smiling but it reminds me of the great connection that we have with each other and the love that we share.
This was right after Avery was born and this is my Dad holding her hand. I love this picture because Amber and I have always loved how big our Daddy's hand are.
Poppa, his princess and his lil' Shooter.


3 comments:
Such a great posting! I love the words about Dad! So true!!! Happy Father's Day Scott, I hope you had a fantastic day!
What a touching post. You speak directly from the heart. Happy Father's Day to all!
You have me crying! What a great job you've done on this posting! You're right about one thing. Your dad loves those grandbabies more than life itself, just as he loves you and Amber. It's such an amazing love that a grandparent has for their grandkids. One day you will see what we're talking about. Scott, you're an amazing father. I'm so proud of you in all that you stand for, taking your family to church and all the other things you do for them. Happy Father's Day!
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