The Family of an IRONMAN

In Honor of Emma Grace

October 15, 2009

Fall Flowers

Today my Dad called and asked Avery and I to lunch at Rancho Grande. We had a wonderful time visiting and eating together.

Afterwards, Avery and I headed to Hobby Lobby and bought flowers for Emma's grave. As always Avery was picking up flowers everywhere as we went down the aisles. She was so excited and kept saying "flowers, so pretty," over and over.

Avery helped and took the old flowers out at the cemetary and helped put the new ones in. As we were leaving she turned around and said "bye Emma, bye, bye Emma" I burst into tears as it just broke my heart. She knew who was there, she knew why we were there and told her goodbye." My how I wish there were never goodbyes! I miss her so much.

Though He brings grief, He will show compassion, so great is His unfailing love. --Lamentations 3:32


Emma's flowers.

While I am happy to see the leaves change colors and the holidays just around the corner this time of the year always seems to be the hardest.

BUT...

There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven: a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance. --Ecclesiastes 3:1, 4

U2!

Last night Scott and I went to the U2 Concert with some of his friends. We enjoyed the concert. Unfortunately for me I didn't know too many of the songs but the music was great! The stage was really cool and the graphics and technology they used to put on the concert was really cool!
The stage before the concert.

October 13, 2009

Better Late than Never!

Summer Review of July 4th

We went to Dallas and stayed at the Hyatt Regency Suites by the Galleria and it was lovely!


As you can tell our children enjoyed their stay as well!

Monkeying around!

While visiting we took the kids to a splash pad in Garland.



Lane jumping from log to log.



Lane sliding down the big slide with Dad not far behind him.


Bella loved this watery playground!


We took the kiddos to Addison to the fireworks display!


On the 4th we had tickets to the Rangers Game and had a wonderful time.
They had a huge fireworks display when the game was over that lasted for over 20 minutes.
Scott and I both agreed it was the best fireworks show we had ever seen.



Lane did a pretty good job taking this pic!



We HAD to get snow cones!


Can you tell it was a hit with Bella?


Pre-Snow Cone, kind of boring for the kiddos!


The best part of the trip was that we were in one room and the kids were in the other and we tried to let Lane have the bed and put Avery in the pack n play but she was having no part of that. Every night she would cry wanting to get in bed with Lane so we thought what the heck. We put her in bed with him and he took care of her. She actually slept fine all night long and woke up right beside him hidden under the covers. You can barely see part of her hand on the right hand side. It was soo sweet!

October 05, 2009

Monday's Message



As mentioned in last week's "Monday Message", we are studying the 12 disciples in Sunday School. This week we looked at the women that followed Jesus. Women were not treated equally as men in those days if you remember. They were considered 'unclean' and the men were to keep away from them as so to not be distracted with sexual thoughts, etc... Women were not allowed to sit anywhere in synagogues for worship, they had to sit at the back to hear what the rabbi would have to say on the Sabbath, while the men were able to sit in the front. The men did not speak to other women either because they were unclean. Imagine how these women must have felt, so unworthy and discriminated against.

When a lady named Rhoda who had been crippled for more than 18 years heard that Jesus was going to be teaching in the synagogue she knew she had to go to hear him. Her back twisted and crippled, bent down for all these years with only a stick in her hand to help her walk she shuffled her way to the synagogue that day. Imagine her not being able to look people in the eye, being made fun of because her back was twisted, and having to walk very slow and hunched over as she entered for worship. The synagogue is filled that day because everyone has come to hear what Jesus has to say. She cannot find a place to sit and as she shuffles around she hears Jesus he calls for her to come forward to the front. He then says "Woman, you are set free from your infirmity." Remember, men did not touch women, much less one that was crippled and considered useless and unclean. But next the bible tells us "he put his hands on her, and immediately she straightened up and praised God." Luke 13:13. Imagine all of the rules that were broken that Sabbath by the Savior, he was healing, he put his hands on her (remember men did not do this), and she was set free. The crowd became indigent because of the miracle He had performed on the Sabbath. He pointed out to the crowd as he called them hypocrites, that she was not just any person, it was okay that she was a women, that she was even crippled and he called her a 'daughter of Abraham'. Even though the villagers saw her as a worthless crippled old lady Jesus saw her as someone whom he cared about and she was just as important as everyone else worshiping that day. Jesus always dealt, with the sick, afflicted, poor and outcast of people. What does that tell you? What should we do?

Luke 13:10-17 10On a Sabbath Jesus was teaching in one of the synagogues, 11and a woman was there who had been crippled by a spirit for eighteen years. She was bent over and could not straighten up at all. 12When Jesus saw her, he called her forward and said to her, "Woman, you are set free from your infirmity." 13Then he put his hands on her, and immediately she straightened up and praised God.
14Indignant because Jesus had healed on the Sabbath, the synagogue ruler said to the people, "There are six days for work. So come and be healed on those days, not on the Sabbath."
15The Lord answered him, "You hypocrites! Doesn't each of you on the Sabbath untie his ox or donkey from the stall and lead it out to give it water? 16Then should not this woman, a daughter of Abraham, whom Satan has kept bound for eighteen long years, be set free on the Sabbath day from what bound her?"
17When he said this, all his opponents were humiliated, but the people were delighted with all the wonderful things he was doing.


The disciples followed Jesus and listened to his teachings and preachings and helped perform miracles. The women of the bible had a lot to loose though. Some left their husbands, they followed Jesus and Jesus mingled and associated himself with these women which was unheard of in those days. These women (Mary and Martha) welcomed him into their homes and anointed him with oils and soaked up all of his teachings. Jesus held their hearts in the palm of his hands because he did not discriminate against them and treat them as though they were unclean. In fact, remember when Mary stood at the empty tomb of Jesus and wailed for Him because his body was gone and all the remained were his grave clothes. Then in John 20:16, Jesus said to her "Mary" and she turned toward him and cried out in Aramaic "Rabboni", which means 'my teacher'. Is He your teacher?



When you feel down and out or discriminated against, crippled physically or mentally, struggling financially or whatever your case may be, remember, Jesus is always there. His teachings are in the Bible that can help us get through any trial we may be going through. We do not face anywhere close to the persecution that these women faced to follow Jesus and yet we still sometimes make the choice not to because we want to do things on our own or we don't want to stick out and be different. Yet it is the people that stuck out the most that Jesus spoke to or helped and was tender hearted towards (the women at the well, the prostitute, the lepers, Rhoda the crippled lady). Have you sold out to Christ and are your following him like the women in the bible? Is He your Rabboni?

We all have days we feel crippled like Rhoda but we must remember, Jesus is calling us to come forward and be set free from our infirmities....but we must come. He will not drag us, it's our choice, do we want to be set free or not?




If you are interested in other stories of women in the Bible that are brought to life like the story of Rhoda this book, The Magdalene Gospel (What if Women Had Written the Gospels?) by Mary Ellen Ashcroft is a good one. You can find this book online at http://www.amazon.com/.

October 02, 2009

Happy Birthday Dad!

We love you so much and are so thankful to have you in our lives. We hope to share many many more birthdays together!

Dad and Me.

Poppa and his grandkids!


September 28, 2009

Monday's Message

Yesterday we went to church and heard Don Piper, the author of "90 Minutes in Heaven" speak. This book was extremely touching to me as I read it after losing Emma. It was so comforting to read about what he heard and saw when he entered Heaven's gates and knowing that Emma is in such a grand and wonderful place. As he spoke yesterday I began to think about how we walk through life with our earthly glasses and not our heavenly glasses. When we see and meet people we should be so burdened about their eternal life that we have to share the gift of salvation.


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After services we went to Bible Study Class and our lesson was on the disciple John. One of the characteristics of John was his "boldness" for Christ and we began to talk and reflect in our own lives about whether or not we have that same "boldness" for Christ that John had.


How many times have you heard God speaking to you to witness to someone or encourage someone and you did it and got a positive result. If you haven't you should try it! There have been times I have felt lead to ask someone if I could pray for them or invite them to church and I was so convicted I couldn't resist. When I did it, God never left me or made a mockery out of me because HE was instucting me to do it. Afterwords, my faith in Christ grew stronger and the next time I was convicted to speak out to someone or do something for Christ that was a little out of my comfort zone it wasn't nearly as difficult because my faith in Christ was stronger. Each time you do it it becomes a little easier and you begin to gain that "boldness" that James and John had for the Lord.


I am a Christian today because I had two loving parents who didn't see me as only a cute lil' blonde headed, blue eyed girl but as a child that was born into sin and headed for an eternity without Christ if they didn't introduce Him to me. Wow! What a responsibility as parents we have to raise our children up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. Are you doing that? Do you realize that you will one day stand before the Lord and give an account for how your children were raised. If God has so blessed you with the miracle of a child why would you not want to introduce them to their Creator? Thankfully for Scott and I, it is easy because we were both raised in church and our Saturday night plans are dictated by having to get up early for church on Sunday. We don't discuss whether or not we are going or "if" we are going to go and now it is rewarding to see that it has become a part of life for Lane and he looks forward to going to church on Sundays and learning about Jesus. Since the day him and Bella were born on Sundays they are in church. We are the parents of 3 children, 2 on earth and 1 in heaven and one day I want our family to ALL be in heaven together and for that reason alone I will continue to pray that one day I will have the opportunity to lead them to the Lord and our family will be eternally together. Do you have that? I pray you do and if you don't, I challenge you to be "bold" in Christ and dedicate your Sundays to taking your children to church and introducing them to a friend that will never leave them nor forsake them and change their lives for ever.


Why am I doing this post today? I woke up this morning with it heavy on my heart to do so and I know that I am taking on that challenge today to be BOLD for Christ and maybe someone somewhere will read this and try it and strengthen their faith in HIM!

September 22, 2009

Happy 8 Year Anniversary Babe!


Scott-
I am so blessed to have such wonderful husband. I love you so much and appreciate all that you do for our family. I love you more and more each day and look forward to you coming home each and every day from work. I am so proud of you and all of your accomplishments in your personal life and your business. You inspire me in so many ways!
Love you always,
Me